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1 I need some advice on to slow things down on Tue Aug 11, 2009 3:56 am

dayuhmxitsxalex

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Ok before I tell you my situation I have to tell you this part.

I've dated a guy for three months and I thought we were really in love, he was more than I could ever dream of, always calling me to make sure he was the first voice I heard, and the last one at night. But then a little bit after our three monther he broke up with me.

Recently I found out that he broke up with me, because he wanted to try something new, but supposedly he still loved me, and every girl he was with afterwards he has wished it was me. I heard this from his best friend who's a girl and wasn't really supposed to talk about it but wanted us to get back together.

Since our break up we had been talking on and off, and during the end of May we got back together, and currently it's been two months. I feel like my emotions are rushed because I really do think he's the one for me, and I feel like I'm obsessed with him, but definitely not in a stalker way.

I want to slow down my feelings just because I never saw the previous break up coming, and I don't want to become too attached to him. And end up feeling really hurt.

Do you have any advice for me? Like if you think he could be the one? How to slow my feelings? Or should I reply more with what he does for me?

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2 Re: I need some advice on to slow things down on Tue Aug 11, 2009 5:32 am

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Hey Alex,

What you two feel for each other could qualify as love, but in my opinion, there's no such thing as a soul mate, or one that you're destined to be with.

You should take it slow, and not grow too attached since you're still young.

The guy broke it off previously to gain more experience; but I'm not discounting his feelings toward you.

It's up to you. Are you ready to commit for a heavy long term relationship? Or do you want to get more out of life and continue dating other men first?

There will always be more options; even better ones. You never know until you open you own doors.

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3 Re: I need some advice on to slow things down on Tue Aug 11, 2009 8:50 am

dayuhmxitsxalex

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Thanks Allure!!(:
Your advice helps a lot, at least I know if things don't end up working with him there's still a lot of other great guys out that can still make me happy just as much as he did or even more.

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4 Re: I need some advice on to slow things down on Wed Aug 12, 2009 10:35 pm

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I encounter these kinds of situations myself and personally I think that if "dating" someone that's gonna constantly be on and off means that they're not "the one". If he's open about trying new things, you should be out trying new things, meeting new people. You don't wanna waste your time on waiting for someone who says he loves you yet he still wants to experience other things.

But that's my opinion... hope that does something Smile

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