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1 How To Know If A Women Likes You on Fri Feb 20, 2009 12:31 am

Allurre

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Knowing whether a woman is attracted to you BEFORE you make
your move big move on her can be helpful.

The problem is that it can be pretty close to impossible to
sense whether a girl likes you. To make matters worse there
is a TON of bad advice out there on the subject.

Some "experts" say that if a woman likes you her pupils will
dilate when she looks at you.

Others suggest that she will twirl her hair and bite her lip
or she might playfully re.mo.ve her shoes.

Oh, and if she's REALLY interested she will blush and her
heart rate will speed up.

What the...?

Dilating pupils?

Heart rates?

come on..

You shouldn't have to take a woman's pulse to figure out if
she's attracted to you.

Those types of signals are so vague and ambiguous they could
be occurring for any number of totally unrelated reasons.

What you need is something that will give you a concrete
answer and something that you can use in ANY situation with
ANY girl.

I've got your solution... Pro.xem.ics.

The term "Proxemics" was coined by researcher E.T. Hall when he investigated man's use of personal space.

Basically, it's studying how people interact with other
people in close proximity to each other (such as on an
elevator).

What on earth does this have to do with detecting interest?

Well, what E.T. found was that individuals subconsciously
perceive a distance that is appropriate for different
relationships; they also establish a comfortable distance
for personal interaction and nonverbally define this as
their personal space.

This is where it gets interesting -- if a woman likes you
she will let you into her more intimate personal space.

But, if she doesn't like you she won't... she will make an
effort to keep you further away -- OUT of her close personal
space reserved for people whom she respects, trusts, and/or
admires.

This is how it happens -- it is PROVEN.

It makes sense... if a woman likes you then she will want
you to be closer whereas the opposite is, of course, also
true.

The more she likes you the less of a boundary she will
place on you.

When you are talking to a woman the space between both of
you is where the two of you are comfortable.

If you move in a little closer to her she will either be
fine with it and allow it or she will get uncomfortable
and move back to reestablish a more comfortable distance.

I'll make it simple for you... if she stays she's
interested.

If she moves back... you still have some work to do because
she's NOT interested yet.

Now, when you do this, only move in an inch or two.

I'm not talking about a huge step closer to her.

ANY woman, no matter how interested she is, would move back
if you suddenly move much closer to her.

Just take a small, smooth step closer to her and watch
for her reaction.

Test it out... this WORKS.

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2 Re: How To Know If A Women Likes You on Fri Feb 20, 2009 7:44 pm

rachelbabyy

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Guys don't get how to tell if a woman is interested because women aren't exactly the best at telling without speaking. (Not sure if that made sense...)

However, if the woman's preferred distance has been established, the guy must know when to stop moving closer.

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