Here's something I've always told myself.. everything happens for a good reason. Every occurrence signifies as a message which may not make sense, or seem utterly undecipherable.

However, time will tell us why such events took place. All is for a good reason.

Agree, disagree?

Agreed. It's part of life. Even though you think things are happening for a bad reason or whatever, you learn from it and eventually you'll get over it and become a better person. Of course, it's also part of God's plan. LIVE YOUR LIFE!

i disagree! i don't think everything happens for a good reason. i think things happen and we just force ourselves to look at the good things that have come from it; even if they are meaningless in comparison to the things that we lost. although, u can learn something from these losses, but u wouldn't have to if the something bad had turned out good in the first place. i don't want to bring beliefs into this but i think bad things happen and we just learn to cope and adapt to situations to MAKE ourselves flexible. UNLESS!!!!!!!!!!, all these bad things happen to us so we can just learn to plain deal with it, then i'll gladly contradict myself ><.(please don't get on me about grammar=[)

finding the loop-hole,
James

I sort of agree. I believe that bad things happen for good reasons.

Its like a never-ending cycle that always gives you hope and makes you aware of your actions.

For example, there may be a period of turmoil. This only allows you to be optimistic for the good that is to come. When the good finally gets here, you can prepare yourself for the worst.

It's not always specific as to what will happen, but at least you know that you must be mentally strong for what is to come.